I expect this to be another highly controversial topic, so I will start again with a disclaimer. I do not personally know anyone who (to my knowledge) has been a victim, a perpetrator, or accused of any sexual crime. I freely admit my lack of personal knowledge of the subject and would be glad to be corrected or to consider new information. I am simply providing the facts as I see them.
About a week ago, Penn State running back Austin Scott was arrested on charges of rape. The story (from the victim’s perspective) is as follows: After having drinks in a bar, she and Scott returned to his apartment. She made it clear to him that she was not willing to have sex with him. After watching television for some time, she fell asleep in his bed. She woke up to find him having intercourse with her, and stopped resisting when he punched her in the back. I have not yet seen Scott’s account of what happened.
A few days after this was reported, the Morning Call ran an article which claims that college and professional athletes are “disproportionately involved in incidents of sexual assault”. Unfortunately, it does not provide actual details to demonstrate the statistical significance of this gap. It also states that athletes are much less likely to be convicted than the average defendant, although the data provided to support this is somewhat suspect. The Montgomery County district attorney is quoted that when sexual violence cases reach trial, the prosecution almost always wins them. A cited USA Today study states that over some time interval, 22 of 168 rape allegations against athletes resulted in convictions. What is not provided is information about how many of those cases reached trial.
Despite the lack of reliable data provided, I have little doubt that both of these assertions are true. There are a number of reasons why athletes might be more likely to commit rape than members of the general population: Certainly, the respect and special treatment afforded to high-profile athletes will inevitably lead to a sense of entitlement among a significant number of them. The same qualities that make athletes better than the population in general at their respective sports would make them uniquely qualified to successfully engage in any sort of violence. Perhaps most importantly, even those athletes who are not using performance-enhancing drugs are going to have elevated levels of testosterone, the primary hormone in both aggression and libido. In addition, it seems reasonable that athletes are also more likely to be falsely accused of crimes, due to their wealth and fame. Finally, athletes are more likely to be able to afford good representation than many other people, and their high profile means that many jurors may feel that they “know” the person, and that he is incapable of such an act.
Morning Call columnist Paul Carpenter (yes, the same guy I referenced in comments to my previous entry) wrote a response to this that was printed yesterday. To guard against expiration, I will reproduce the entire column here:
One need only look at Mike Tyson’s facial tattoos to realize this guy does not just have a screw loose, he has great big bolts clanking around in there.
Tyson’s tattoos may reflect the rest of his persona — they look like deranged doodles.
Nevertheless, I never have been comfortable with the fact that Tyson spent three years in prison on a rape charge. This was a case in which a woman voluntarily accompanied Tyson to his hotel suite in the wee hours of the morning, went to his bedroom with him, and then got in his bed.
I can’t help but wonder what women think will happen if they make a habit of jumping into the sack with young men who have normal hormonal drives. Ferocious feminists preach that ”no” always means ”no.” They even say that when a sex act has already begun, the male must stop instantly instead of continuing, as reportedly happened with Kobe Bryant.
In theory, that may sound like a valid argument; in actual practice, I think raging hormones may be as strong as the physiological mechanisms that produce involuntary hiccups.
For various reasons unrelated to Tyson’s rape case, jail might be a good place for him. Among other things, it would keep him off our public roads and away from people’s ears.
I have misgivings, however, when the legal system makes no distinction, at all, between a case in which a beast grabs an innocent victim from a sidewalk and rapes her, and a case in which an adult woman agrees to get in bed with a man and then coyly says ”no.”
Weekend stories told of rape charges being filed against Parkland High School graduate and Penn State star football player Austin Scott.
One story, on Sunday, also made comparisons with the cases involving Tyson, Bryant and other star athletes. The story quoted one expert as saying such luminaries ”get a sense of entitlement at a very young age,” suggesting that their behavior may be tainted by being full of themselves.
There was no mention of any possibility that some women may have motives for pursuing star athletes, as conveyed by the lyrics of a song written in 1933 and still played by rah-rah scholastic bands. ”You’ve to be a football hero to get along with beautiful girls. You’ve to got be a touchdown getter … ” and so forth.
In touchdown getter Scott’s case, it was reported, a woman voluntarily joined him for drinks at a State College bar, voluntarily went with him to his apartment, voluntarily got into his bed in the wee hours of the morning, and then, egad, Scott had sex with her.
There are other factors reported in this case. For example, the woman said Scott gave her a kidney punch. If that is true, prosecute him, by all means, for punching her.
At some point, however, somebody needs to have the courage to face the wrath of ferocious feminists and bring some degree of common sense to these kinds of situations.
In murder cases, we decide whether to execute people on the basis of mitigating and aggravating factors. We need a similar approach in cases involving sex. Grabbing a victim from a sidewalk or playground and raping her simply is not the same as being in bed with a willing woman who suddenly has a change of heart after the windows get steamed up with heavy breathing.
I’m not saying such behavior should never be prosecuted, but let’s apply some common-sense mitigating factors.
I admire Mr. Carpenter’s courage. In our current society, there are a few issues on which you simply cannot disagree with prevailing opinion without becoming a pariah. One needs only to look about two weeks back in the same newspaper to the outcry over this editorial. Of course, that was a case where the writer was both wrong and hateful, but my point remains. When I was in college, there was an organization known as STudents Against Rape (STAR), a noble cause. I became disgruntled, however, when some members of this group started an in-your-face campaign that essentially labeled all men as predators and women as helpless victims throughout their lives. My roommate and I talked about starting a parody organization to oppose them: Raging Against People In Star Today (RAPIST). In hindsight, I am quite glad news of this never spread beyond our immediate circle of friends; being lynched does not sound pleasant.
In this case, I do not quite agree with Mr. Carpenter’s views, but I find myself wholly approving of the spirit of his writing. Getting into someone’s bed is not implicit consent to sexual contact, particularly if it is accompanied by a specific statement of the opposite intent. In a college dormitory room, there is typically little other furniture a person might use while watching television. It was not terribly uncommon to have two people on each of the beds in my dorm room with another 4 laying on a futon in front during a movie night, and I can assure you that no one had any intention of initiating any sexual behavior.
Mr. Carpenter also argues that, when a woman changes her mind in the midst of a sexual encounter, the “raging hormones” of a young man may make it physically impossible to comply with her wishes. As a “young man who has normal hormonal drives”, I find that absurd. If a policeman shining his flashlight through the car window can cause an immediate stop to intimate activity, I am sure that a firm “stop” from one of the participants can as well. (Not that I’ve ever been in this situation, but it is enough of a cliche that it must have some basis in reality.
Where I agree entirely with this column is the indignation that events as described above are legally considered the same as a forcible attack. “Grabbing a victim from a sidewalk or playground and raping her simply is not the same as being in bed with a willing woman who suddenly has a change of heart after the windows get steamed up with heavy breathing.” Amen. To think otherwise trivializes the trauma experienced by those women (and men) who are victims of the former type of assault.
My personal problem with current laws has less to do with situations where consent might be implied or withdrawn as above, but with those where consent is given by all parties but the law decides that some parties could not have given consent. Most notably, it makes little sense to me that someone can choose to become intoxicated, choose to have sex while intoxicated, and then have her sexual partner considered a violent attacker. If we follow this logic, anyone who engages in a financial transaction with a drunk person should be charged with theft by deception. Furthermore, if an intoxicated person is legally incapable of making such decisions, we cannot hold drunk drivers legally responsible for their actions. What makes this even worse is that the same rules do not seem to be applied equally to both genders. If two intoxicated people have sex, they should both (under current laws) be charged with raping each other. In cases I have read about, however, only the male partner will be charged. I suppose this implies that a man would never decline casual sex when sober, which is insulting. Of course, I am not proposing that these laws be indiscriminately repealed. If someone plies their date with alcohol or discreetly drugs him or her with Rohypnol or another “date rape” drug in order to elicit consent, this should clearly be illegal. Even in this case, however, I do not think the punishment should be as severe as the case of a physically violent attack.
There is a similarly very difficult problem when a person is ruled incapable of consenting due to their age. Of course children need to be protected, and adults who exploit them should be punished severely. The concept of a “statutory rape” being the same as a rape, however, is extremely distasteful. I am still young enough to remember being a teenager, and it is difficult for me to imagine that any sexual experience that a typical teenager might completely agree to would be traumatic to them. This is really a topic for an entirely different essay, so I will not pursue it further.
In summary, I think Mr. Carpenter’s idea of mitigating and aggravating factors is excellent as long as we continue treating all unwanted or otherwise illegal sexual contact as the same crime. It would allow offenders to be punished in a manner consistent with the details of their crime without the capriciousness of a judge’s sentencing leeway. Common sense is lacking in such highly-charged issues, but voices of reason may eventually prevail if we are not first silenced.